I have come to realize that when an activist is unable to address questions about issues, the activist digresses to personal attacks that have nothing to do with the issues. This is a diversionary tactic to distract the public from the truth. It often works or they wouldn’t use this tactic. The so-called personal attacks could be totally made up (as most are in this situation) or a major twisting of the objective truth.
Case in point – issues of the sub-minimum wage ban in Seattle. The Seattle Commission for People with Disabilities instituted this rule change and subsequent legislation without listening to concerns in the community. It’s difficult to separate the Commission from the current Co-Chair, Shaun Bickley since Bickley self-identifies as the person who got this ban in place. If people credit the Commission, Bickley becomes upset that his name was not mentioned as the person responsible. This is why many of the issues I address are written about/to Bickley since he was the person answering for the Commission. This is not a personal issue about Bickley himself, but Bickley, acting as Co-Chair of the Commission and as a public servant for the City of Seattle.
As far as I’m concerned, any one of the Commissioners could answer but they have left it to Bickley to do the talking. So, my calling out Bickley is only because Bickley is the one doing the communicating for the Commission.
But, Bickley, has made it a personal issue against him, when in fact, it’s not about him at all but the issues. I have only been trying to get a conversation on the issues. Bickley writes as if I have been trying to invade his personal life – I know nothing about the person, his life, and have never tried to contact him personally outside of the Commission. The fact that Bickley seems to think that the Seattle Commission for People with Disabilities is his personal domain (Facebook and meetings) is a problem.
Bickley blocked me from the Commission Facebook page (he does state this himself) and that was a violation of the First Amendment. Bickley claims that I cried ‘censorship” when he blocked me from contacting him. The way he writes this it appears that he blocked me from his personal page and I got upset about that. I have no idea since I have never gone to his personal page and never tried to contact him personally. He did block me from the Commission page but that is not HIS page – it is a City Commission page and yes, that was a concern. Bickley does not seem to be able to distinguish between himself and the Commission.
Bickley recently posted a long diatribe for Autism Speaking Day 2018 on his friends, Kassiane Asasumasu’s blog “Radical Neurodivergence Speaking”. This essay is an exercise in narcissistic victimization delusions. When I informed Kassiane Asasumasu of the libelous essay, she wrote ” It’s not libel when it’s true. It’s the best sourced item I’ve ever published.” Maybe Kassiane Asasumasu never checks sources if she believes this nonsense too.
For documentation and clarification of letters I have sent to The Arc of King County (Bickley’s place of employment which he claims I have visited and contacted many times asking for his removal). Bickley also claims that I have shown up in person at his job to demand my dismissal, as well as at meetings he attends – including Commission meetings. Yes, I have attended Commission meetings and one SAIL meeting with my disabled son but have never shown up at his place of employment regarding anything having to do with him. These are public meetings for disability advocacy. The Arc of King County is an advocacy agency for people with intellectual/developmental disabilities – something that I have been involved in for over 20 years.
Letter to Ramona Hattendorf, The Arc of King County, regarding the abusive response at a public meeting by Co-Chair Bickley – May 2018
Correspondence with Ramona Hattendorf regarding issues with Seattle Commission and explanation of events which have occured. June 2018
Bickley writes – she “tried to physically prevent me from exiting the Commission room, probably hoping to entrap me into shoving past her to escape so she could claim to be attacked by the big bad autistic.”
This statement is clearly a fabrication. I left the room with the Office of Civil Rights Liaison, who is also heard on the recording saying “Shaun, back up”, and Bickley was nowhere near me at the time. He was still in the Boardroom talking with others when Marta and I left the room in conversation.
Letter sent via blind cc to all those who submitted public comments to OLS May 2018 – I assume that the person that Bickley refers to has partner in this comment “She’s contacted many others, advocates and friends, including my partner, to warn them what a terrible person I am.” maybe one of the 70 people on this list. This was also the only email that I EVER sent to Bickley’s personal email (except for the reply to his “cease & desist” letter)
Correspondence with Ramona Hattendorf, The Arc of King County, regarding the letter by firstname.lastname@example.org regarding elimination of sub-minimum wage statewide – October 2018
As a follow up, the false accusations and libelous comments posted and shared on many Social Media sites regarding not only issues with me but with other disability advocates who have questioned him, are acts of aggression and harassment.
Bickley has NO evidence of the accusation he has fabricated and so the tactic is to make personal attacks and take on the abused victim role. All I can say is that must be a very sad place to be and a sad place to see the world from. I do hope that someone is able to talk with him and help him to come to grips with reality but given what I have learned about those with this type of personality disorder, it rarely happens unless that person can acknowledge fact.
And, Bickley, if you are reading this, please do provide supporting documentation for your claims because I have not seen the evidence. Also, please discuss the issues as I have requested over and over again.